Waiting

A ladybug landed on me today. Ron and I were standing in the checkout lane of the Lowe's garden center. I'm sure the cashier was confused as to why I was so excited. According to adoptive moms, a ladybug sighting means your referral is coming soon.

We are still working on the baby room but it is technically ready for our little girl. We still have a great deal of things to buy. I'm not certain if shopping makes the waiting easier or harder.
I found this piggy bank at a tea room and just had to have it!

Log In Date

We received a gift today from our adoption agency to celebrate our dossier getting logged into the Chinese government office. It is tiny Chinese dress. Our Log In Date (LID) is 12-9-05.

We also have some sad news. The Chinese government is overwhelmed with adoption applications right now and does not have enough babies that are "paperwork ready" to adopt. Our agency said it could be August or September before we get our referral. We are trying not to be dismayed by this news since everything is a part of God's plan to get us to our daughter.The good news is that so many people are interested in adopting these children. Please pray that the wait will not be too long and we will be trustful of God's timing. And pray for our daughter! We both feel certain she is alive in China at this time.

A Precious Gift

For a Christmas gift to Ron and I my sister Christine drew this sketch of baby hands holding a ladybug. I was a total surprise and we love it!

I had told Christine that I am not sure of the origins but the ladybug is considered a symbol of Chinese adoption. When you spot a ladybug, it means your referral is coming soon.

I get teary-eyed every time I pass by the picture. I cannot get the image to upload but with the picture was written in Chinese "Mother, Father, Daughter, Family"

Dossier To China!

Our dossier was sent to China on November 7th. This is a huge step in the adoption process. All of our work is finished. What happens now is that the dossier must be translated into Chinese and then will be sent to all the appropriate agencies for approval. Once it is approved, they will send it to the Matching Room which is where they match the parents to one of the babies they have waiting. When they find the right baby for us they will send us a referral. Then we get our approval to travel to China and go get her.

Right now we know we know we have six to seven months until we get our referral and then can travel about four to six weeks after that. So it is official that we are "expecting!" We had waited until our dossier went to China before we did any shopping or decorating of the babies room so now we get to do the fun stuff. We went shopping this past weekend looking at cribs and baby bedding. Ron is making some of the shelves and we are refinishing some furniture for the room so we won't have to buy too much but it is fun to shop anyway. I ordered our crib bedding today and it is pink pink pink! :)

Where we are now in the process.

We have completed our home study and have been approved by INS to adopt a foreign orphan. All of our paperwork is in the process of being authenicated by the Chinese consulates. When we get these documents back (probably in a couple of weeks) we will be able to send all the approved documents to our adoption agency.

From there our agency makes sure there are no problems and then sends our dossier to China where it will be translated into Chinese and then will go to the departments that choose a child for each couple. The referral takes about 6 months from the time the dossier is sent to China so it is a huge deal to get it sent off.

We are very close to DTC (dossier to China)! When we send it off, we will start decorating the baby's room.

Right now, we are working very hard to get the outdoor projects such as fences and gardens finished on our home since we know it will be harder to find the time to do them next year.

Our Family

Allow me to introduce you to our family!

Ron and Dad

From Left to Right: Julie, Penny, Chip, Mom, Sam, Ron and Brent.

From left to right Back: Sharon and Jennell, Mom and Dad. Jennell holding James. Mom holding Aaron. Front: James and Christine, Hannah, Daniel, and me.

My entire family lives in Oklahoma near us.
My older sister Jennell is a church receptionist and her two boys are Daniel 11 and James 7.
Younger sister Sharon is a police dispatcher and her two kids are Hannah 7 and Aaron 6.
My brother James is the youngest. He is in the Air Force and is stationed at Tinker AFB. His wife Christine and he have been married for two years.
Mom, Helen, moved to OK this year after my Dad died. She loves living near the grandkids.



Ron's older brother Sam is a businessman and he lives in NC with his wife Penny and their sons Chip and Brent.
Younger brother John and his wife Shawna just got stationed in New Jersey with the Air Force.
Parents Sam and Marion also live in NC. Ron's Dad is a retired Air Force Senior Master Sergeant and spent 20 more years as an air traffic controller so they are enjoying a well deserved retirement.

Ron and Julie

Ron and I have to be so serious in our jobs that we make up for it in our playtime by having fun. We love Disney and the zoo and almost anything outdoors. We spend a lot of time with our dogs. We just built a house and we are spending the entire summer putting up fencing and landscaping the property and doing all those things we won't have time for when our daughter gets here. We moved in during the adoption process and that caused a few glitches but we got through it. Our house was designed with our daughter in mind and, of course, has Disney in the decor.

A Long Process

Ron and I started the adoption process in September of 2003. We had been wondering about it for years. We went to a Steven Curtis Chapman concert and he talked about the "Miracle of Adoption" as a testimony since he had adopted a little girl from China. We felt so strongly this was what we should do that we started the process of looking for an agency.

Without going into all the details, I will tell you that it is a time-consuming process. Because we both were in the military and moved around so much, tracking down the documents was a challenge in itself. When we started this process, we truly did not know how we were going to pay for it but believed that as we obeyed, God would make the finances possible. We have been blessed financially and are still wading through the paperwork but it is going! As of September 2005 we are waiting on documents from INS and the Chinese Consulates to return to us so that we can move forward in the process.